5 Tips When You’re Scared with Liver Disease

Feeling safe while living with cirrhosis is not always easy. Eleven years ago this May, an ambulance ride to ER saved my life. A massive varices bleed had come on suddenly. It took 7 units total, of plasma and whole blood, to stabilize my body. Now I want to share what I learned with 5 Tips when you’re scared with liver disease.

I was brain foggy and in a scary dream like state, but from time to time, I could see family members sleeping on the couch or sitting by my bed. It was a humbling experience that shook me to the core. If you’re looking for safety, try looking both internally, and externally to find comfort. 

5 Tips when you’re scared with liver disease

Inside and Outside Comfort

External – We look for appropriate medical care. You may not have had a bleed out, but may need paracentesis. Perhaps you are taking lactulose or other medications and simply need to know that someone can help you get the meds you need or take you to and from a procedure. You may need to rely on helpers, such as family and friends. If you find yourself alone, let the nursing staff know if you need emotional support. Access to good medical care can fill in all the other gaps.  

Shelter – Knowing that we have a roof over our head brings comfort. Having a place to call home, where we have a space of our own means everything. When I was a child, we had a big house, but 4 children. Sometimes things got loud – especially if mom and dad were fighting. (Click to read how he quit drinking) I always retreated to my Catalpa Tree. With a nice fork near the ground, I could shimmy up and hide in the shade of the large leaves to find safety.

Even today, when I need solace, or solitude, I think of the arms of that tree. It’s a symbol of peace and safety that always comforts. Of course there were worms to deal with, but life isn’t perfect, you know? It was my place, and even though the old tree is now dead, I still visit it in my mind, and snap pics like this one in Pawhuska, Oklahoma. I know that finding your happy place isn’t easy if your basic needs are not met. Again, if you don’t feel like you have stable housing, reach out during your next medical provider visit. Don’t face that alone.

Have a Plan

Be prepared – If an urgent medical need comes up, it’s wise to have a plan in place. During that particular varices bleed, I felt it coming on. I was living with my daughter and battling nausea. Before she went to bed, she reminded me to text her if I needed anything. When I felt the blood rising up in my throat, I rolled onto the floor, dragging a sheet with me. I managed to text the word Help. She rushed in and called 911. The point is, my caregiver and I had a plan. We had talked about it beforehand. 

Internal – My self talk was my own inner dialogue of words and images that would bring me peace. It’s vital to know what you will dwell on during times when you are physical threatened and do not feel safe while living with cirrhosis. I use spiritual tools that are uplifting. In addition, music, prayer, meditation, repeating certain familiar words of comfort, and many more tools help me. Some words are Peace, Help, Thank You, I am at rest, I am alive, Thank You and other such thoughts are my default during times of trouble. 

5 Tips when you’re scared with liver disease

Finding Medical Care

Having a Plan with Caregivers

Control Your Self Talk

Create Positive Visual Images

Trust in Your Mental Safe Place

We’ve all had times when we didn’t feel safe while living with cirrhosis – physically, emotionally, or psychologically. When health problems hit, it is wise to know how you will handle it. Build your internal and external resources before a crisis, and you will be glad you did. I hope these 5 Tips when you’re scared with liver disease are useful for you. xo  

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2 thoughts on “5 Tips When You’re Scared with Liver Disease”

  1. Hi Karen, this was very helpful. Would you be able to share any info about what medical team, what hospital, what city was so efficient in supporting your desire to get better?

    1. Maria,
      Every state has good hospitals. I was in Oklahoma City. First at a teaching university hospital – Oklahoma University. Then my insurance transferred me to Integris Baptist Nazih Zudhi Transplant hospital.
      What city are you in? Do you have a hematologist? I’m happy to help to refer you. The American Association for the Study of Liver Disease, AASLD has many great medical doctors and practitioners nation wide as members. I’ll help you.
      xo Karen

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